How to develop a long-term relationship?
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How to develop a long-term relationship?,
It's very easy to keep a girl attracted when you're not living together when you've just met because that is when the passion and the intensity is at its strongest but what happens when you get into a long-term relationship with a girl and you notice she starts to pull away she starts to lose attraction for you she stars to become more distant and she starts to move away from you and everything's been going great maybe you're living together in the same place or maybe you're just very comfortable with each other you have the same routine day in day out she knows what you're going to do and you know what she's going to do and you settled into, this routine and it's very comfortable but your girlfriend has now started to pull away from you andshe's losing attraction for you how do you keepp the attraction going when she already knows everything about you there's no mystery left she knows what you're going to eathow you're going to respond where you're going to be what you like to do it she knows everything about your life...
And this is one of the big problems because this also kills attraction, So when you're in a long-term relationship with your girlfriend it's important to read it
How to develop a long-term relationship
or How to run relationship game
this is essentially just keeping your girlfriend attracted to you and not letting her get too comfortable with the situation because as soon as you r girlfriend takes you for granted as soon as you become predictable and as soon as she knows everything about you and there's no mystery left at all she's gonna pull away
And she's gonna lose interest this is because she knows you're always going to be there and no matter what she does she has a fullback position which is you and this not a good state to be in because when you like this and the girl know exactly where she stands
And what you're going to do and how are you going to react and she knows that no matter what she does you'll always be that because you've been there for so long it will kill attraction subconsciously in her mind at first she's not conscious of it but over time it's going to lower her attraction levels until she becomes conscious of it
And then when the problems start to happen and she pulls away or she breaks up with you and it can hit a lot of guys very fast
I was speaking to a guy the other day who'd been in a long-term relationship with his girlfrriend for five years all of a sudden he thinks everything's going great he's very comfortable he's very happy he didn't know that for the last 12months his girlfriend had been losing
attraction for him and she just broke up with him and she said it's because I need to go out and explore life I need to have adventures you're
So predictable and I don't feel like we're growing together anymore essentially what that means that she's lost attraction for him
How do you keep her attracted
well the first thing to do is to remain a mystery now just because you're in a long-term relationship it doesn't mean that she has to know everything about your life she has to know what you're doing, where you're going, what you're working,
on you still have to have the ability to surprise her and being able to surprise your girlfriend is very important it doesn't mean bringing gifts or surprises like that it means being a surprise in your personality in your attitude and your behavior
doing things she doesn't expect doing your own things your own projects having your own ambitions working out whatever it is you need to be able to do things and when you do this it's going to surprise that it's going to be very good for relationship
Also you don't want to be too close all the time when you're in a long-term rlationship people get into the hebit of being very close you want to pull away a little bit
surprise her in that way-don't be available all time don't always respond to her messages straight away don't fall into a routine where you have to see her every day on a Wednesday a Friday a Saturday or Sunday mix it up change things around and be surprising and this will keep her on toes and it'll you much more interesting as a man you also need to follow the basic principles of attraction.
And enjoy rlationship
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How to develop a long-term relationship?,
It's very easy to keep a girl attracted when you're not living together when you've just met because that is when the passion and the intensity is at its strongest but what happens when you get into a long-term relationship with a girl and you notice she starts to pull away she starts to lose attraction for you she stars to become more distant and she starts to move away from you and everything's been going great maybe you're living together in the same place or maybe you're just very comfortable with each other you have the same routine day in day out she knows what you're going to do and you know what she's going to do and you settled into, this routine and it's very comfortable but your girlfriend has now started to pull away from you andshe's losing attraction for you how do you keepp the attraction going when she already knows everything about you there's no mystery left she knows what you're going to eathow you're going to respond where you're going to be what you like to do it she knows everything about your life...
And this is one of the big problems because this also kills attraction, So when you're in a long-term relationship with your girlfriend it's important to read it
How to develop a long-term relationship
or How to run relationship game
this is essentially just keeping your girlfriend attracted to you and not letting her get too comfortable with the situation because as soon as you r girlfriend takes you for granted as soon as you become predictable and as soon as she knows everything about you and there's no mystery left at all she's gonna pull away
And she's gonna lose interest this is because she knows you're always going to be there and no matter what she does she has a fullback position which is you and this not a good state to be in because when you like this and the girl know exactly where she stands
And what you're going to do and how are you going to react and she knows that no matter what she does you'll always be that because you've been there for so long it will kill attraction subconsciously in her mind at first she's not conscious of it but over time it's going to lower her attraction levels until she becomes conscious of it
And then when the problems start to happen and she pulls away or she breaks up with you and it can hit a lot of guys very fast
I was speaking to a guy the other day who'd been in a long-term relationship with his girlfrriend for five years all of a sudden he thinks everything's going great he's very comfortable he's very happy he didn't know that for the last 12months his girlfriend had been losing
attraction for him and she just broke up with him and she said it's because I need to go out and explore life I need to have adventures you're
So predictable and I don't feel like we're growing together anymore essentially what that means that she's lost attraction for him
How do you keep her attracted
well the first thing to do is to remain a mystery now just because you're in a long-term relationship it doesn't mean that she has to know everything about your life she has to know what you're doing, where you're going, what you're working,
on you still have to have the ability to surprise her and being able to surprise your girlfriend is very important it doesn't mean bringing gifts or surprises like that it means being a surprise in your personality in your attitude and your behavior
doing things she doesn't expect doing your own things your own projects having your own ambitions working out whatever it is you need to be able to do things and when you do this it's going to surprise that it's going to be very good for relationship
Also you don't want to be too close all the time when you're in a long-term rlationship people get into the hebit of being very close you want to pull away a little bit
surprise her in that way-don't be available all time don't always respond to her messages straight away don't fall into a routine where you have to see her every day on a Wednesday a Friday a Saturday or Sunday mix it up change things around and be surprising and this will keep her on toes and it'll you much more interesting as a man you also need to follow the basic principles of attraction.
And enjoy rlationship